Sidste dag på barsel

I dag er en særlig dag. Det var Valdemars sidste dag i børnehaven. Både Lasse og jeg var med til at hente ham, da der også var julehygge for forældrene i dag. Valde fik en planche med nogle billeder af sig selv og et hæfte med tegninger fra børnene i afskedsgave. Det er en dag med blandede følelser. På den ene side er jeg glad for at han stopper, og jeg glæder mig til at have ham hjemme i en periode. På den anden side frygter jeg hvordan han vil håndtere det her “brud”, om han bliver glad det nye sted, og om han kan finde venner.

Samtidigt er det her min sidste dag på barsel. Det er lidt løgn, for i systemet er jeg stadig på barsel. Men slut med barsel i klassisk forstand. Fordi jeg nu også skal have en 3-årig hjemme, er der nogle af de klassiske “barselsaktiviteter” jeg ikke længere kan eller vil bruge tid på, eksempelvis babysalmesang, mødregruppe, cafébesøg, sove hele dagen. Ej, det lyder som om jeg har haft en totalt luksus-barsel, men det har jeg vel egentligt også (bortset fra diverse identitetskriser). Især de sidste par uger, hvor Lasse har varetaget både afleveringer og afhentninger af Valde.

Eva Luna 6 timer gammel

Nu begynder et nyt kapitel som hjemmepasser, som man jo kalder det nu til dags (det hedder ikke hjemmegående mor – nærmere hjemmestyrtende, hvis noget). Og vi skal lave en masse andre dejlige ting: gå i skoven, plante ting i haven, gå i legestu(er), åben hal, besøge gårdbutikker, læse bøger, gå på biblioteket, se på slottet, kede os og bare chille to the max (nu griner Tahini nok). Ja, jeg har en romantisk forestilling om hvordan livet som hjemmegående er, men frygter også om jeg kan klare det. Måske begynder Valde selv at efterspørge en ny børnehave på et tidspunkt, og så vil jeg ikke være den, der forhindrer ham i at få lov til at finde en. Men lad os nu se.

Nu tager vi bare én dag ad gangen, som de siger i AA. Jeg ved hvad jeg vil. Jeg vil nyde opleve livet sammen med mine børn nu mens jeg har muligheden for det. Alt andet må vente. Og denne gang mener jeg virkelig alt andet (godt jeg har en mand der tjener penge til mig).

Hov, jeg glemte helt hvad indlægget egentligt skulle handle om: en lille tidlig nytårsstatus på, hvad jeg har nået hidtil i min barsel. HER kan du læse mine mål. Det skal lige siges at jeg startede min barsel med at lave absolut ingenting i 5 uger, derfor har jeg set så mange serier.

Serier jeg har set (hele sæsoner):

Netflix:

  •  Love
  • Atypical
  • Big Little Lies
  • Call the midwife
  • Lilyhammer
  • You, me, her
  • Orange is the new black
  • Grace and Frankie

HBO:

  • A Handmaid’s Tale
  • Kampen for Tilværelsen

DR:

  • Borgen (igen)
  • Petra elsker sig selv
  • I forreste række
  • Spis & Spar
  • Herrens Veje
  • Generation XL
  • Hård udenpå

Bøger jeg har læst:

  • “Og sådan blev det” (Maren Uthaug)
  • “Hvornår er det min tur til at skrige?” (Karen Heurlin)
  • “Vi er bare selv” (Linda Abildgren)
  • “Hvor lagde jeg babyen?” (Julia Lahme)

Sange jeg har lært på guitar: Livstræet og En Enkelt sang om frihed

Antal falafler spist: 100

Antal timer brugt på The Sims: 38

Antal knibeøvelser: for få

Antal gange jeg har spillet orgel: 2

Så mange gange har jeg lavet yoga: 5 (mindst!)

Antal lange gåture: 3

Antal timer brugt på insta: 400

Antal mentale sammenbrud: 3

Antal besøg i kirke: 10

Antal middagslure: 200

Antal gange jeg har ammet: ca. 2000

Eva Luna 6 måneder

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