#6 Julekalender: Familie

Mor er træt. Jeg sidder i min seng med en sovende Valde i favnen, og kan næsten ikke holde øjnene åbne. Men jeg vil altså lige åbne en låge i min julekalender.

Min mor, min søster, mig og Valdemar

I dag efter kirke drog Valde og jeg til Hillerød for at besøge vores tidligere bofæller, som vi har boet sammen med i et år, og flyttede fra for en måned siden. Det inspirerede mig til at skrive om familie, for de er vores udvidede familie. Valde har kendt dem hele sit liv, og Fru Cæsar har nærmest fungeret som en “medmor”, idet hun gik hjemme sammen med mig, da jeg var på barsel.

Gud har valgt at lade mig blive født ind i netop min familie. Men han har også lært mig at være ekstra taknemmelig for den.
Da jeg var i Taizè fik jeg muligheden for at fejre jul og nytår i Rom, hvor klosterfælleskabet afholdte et af deres europæiske møder, hvor tusindvis af unge mødes. Jeg kunne komme derned gratis sammen med dejlige mennesker. Det var en fantastisk mulighed, men jeg ville hellere hjem til lille Danmark for at holde jul sammen med min familie. Det var en ny følelse, et nyt perspektiv. Jeg har nok altid være glad for min familie, men har taget det for givet. Først da jeg rejste til udlandet i længere tid, indså jeg hvor meget de betyder for mig.
Da jeg vendte hjem fra klosterlivet, havde jeg en stor trang til at dele liv med andre og leve i et fællesskab. Dette førte mig til “Kolle”, hvilket har givet os en udvidet familie. Nogle der følger os resten af livet, og som Valde forhåbentlig får meget glæde af. Alle kristne er selvfølgelig også min familie, herunder vores kirke, som ledte os til mødet med førnævnte bofæller.

Det er skønt at have nogle at dele sin tro med, sundt at have et ophav, som accepterer en fuldt ud, og berigende at dele liv med mennesker, som udfordrer ens synspunkter og går ind for cirkusrevolution. Hver ting til sin tid.


Om fremtiden byder på endnu et kollektiv, bolig i Jylland tæt på familien eller oikos, det må tiden vise. Men familie har jeg i hvert fald nok af. Det har Gud velsignet mig med.

Valdemars morfar, oldemor og tipoldemor

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