Kærlighedens dag

“Amerikanerne siger vi skal, og så gør vi det bare”, som min mand så klogt sagde i aftes, da vi var på pizzadate i Hillerød.

Valentins-date, altså.. for det var jo kærlighedens dag igår! Det glæder mig, at Valentinsdag i år faldt på en søndag, for enhver søndag er i forvejen kærlighedens dag, den hellige hviledag og festdag for kristne.

I går var det dog særligt den romantiske (parforholds)kærlighed, der skulle fejres, og som skeptikere siger: har vi virkelig brug for sådan en dag? Bør vi ikke bare være kærlige mod hinanden hver dag, året rundt?

Jo da!

Det er jeg enig i. Men som kristen er det oftest den store kærlighed der tales om, den som er meget mere end bare den romantiske, kærlighed som et valg. Jeg har i hvert fald hørt mange kristne omtale kærlighed som et valg, forstået på den måde, at man fx tager et valg om at ville elske din ægtefælle i medgang og modgang, selv hvis følelserne forsvinder for en tid.

Jesus opfordrer os til at elske vore fjender. Også det er et aktivt valg man må gøre sig og stå fast på – for det er jo de færreste, der helt naturligt nærer varme følelser for deres fjender.

Alligevel synes jeg personligt det er dejligt med en dag til at fokusere på den romantiske tosomhed (hvis man altså ikke er poly). Den har jeg det nemlig med at negligere. Den såkaldte romantiske kærlighed er hos mig under anklage for at være indbildsk, opreklameret og et hollywood-fænomen af momentan sindssyge.

Men den findes jo!

Sidste år på valentinsdag sad vi i biografen, da min mor skrev, at hun havde hørt om nogle skyderier i København, om det var tæt på os? (Vi var på frederiksberg)

Jyder altså, tænkte jeg. Vidste hun ikke hvor Østerbro lå? Men det var jo tæt på os, alt for tæt. Verden trænger i den grad til mere kærlighed i alle former, især idag.

Derfor kiggede jeg min mand ekstra dybt i øjnene, og vi var ekstra søde ved hinanden. Og det var dejligt! Opreklameret eller ej..

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