#Friyay

Fredag har for mig altid stået i et særligt lys, lige siden min barndom.
Som barn var fredag en særlig dag for min søster og jeg, fordi det var ugens slikdag. Noget jeg tror gælder mange børnefamilier rundt omkring i landet. Vi spiste dog ikke ret meget slik, men mest chips (og cola!), hvilket nok er grunden til, jeg stadig foretrækker chips frem for slik.
Da jeg blev lidt ældre, måske 12 år,  havde jeg en vane med at købe en pose sour cream&onion og kværne den foran noget dårlig tv efter skole. Det var himlen for mig.

I gymnasiet herskede der også weekendstemning om fredagen, ikke mindst på grund af fredagsbaren. Nogle fredage var der stor fest, andre gange snuppede vi måske bare en øl foran Netto (meeeeget teenageagtigt). Så snart foråret gjorde sit indtog – ifølge dansk kultur: når bøgen springer ud – kunne man om fredagen finde os under Bøgen (et kæmpe træ ved torvet i Esbjerg) med en håndfuld DP’ere. Altså, Dansk Pilsner. Det er flere år siden jeg har smagt sådan en, men hver gang jeg gør, bliver jeg ført tilbage til følelsen af sol, sommer og naiv ungdom. Ak ja, romantisere fortiden kan man altid.

Som universitetsstuderende forblev fredag min yndlingsdag. Ofte var jeg – som mange andre – fuldstændigt kvæstet i hovedet og kroppen – og kunne ikke andet end at crashe i min seng (med mindre der var fest på programmet, selvfølgelig). Barndommens cola blev skiftet ud med rødvin, og ja, i nogle perioder kunne jeg sagtens drikke en hel flaske alene – igen, nok meget normalt for nogle – hvis man er et par, deler man måske en flaske. Måske ikke jordens bedste vane, men stadig en fredagsfølelse jeg tænker tilbage på. Det var så befriende at kunne være helt alene og ligge i min seng ligeså længe, jeg ville. Jeg ville ønske at jeg ikke havde været så smadret. Men den ro der på en eller anden måde falder over en fredag efter fyraften, er jeg stadig fan af.

Hvordan ser fredag så ud nu, hvor vi er en børnefamilie? Jeg forestiller mig, at den for de fleste med små børn er lidt hård og ikke særlig festlig. Hvis jeg selv skulle arbejde 37 timer om ugen og passe barn ved siden af, tror jeg også jeg ville være helt færdig, når vi kom til fredag. Heldigvis er det ikke tilfældet. Mit studie er nemlig så luksus-agtigt indrettet, at jeg har fri stort set hver fredag. Det er altså fedt. Både fordi weekenden bliver længere, men man får også mere ud af den, fordi man ikke skal starte med at bruge hele lørdagen på at genopstå fra de døde. Fredag har Valde altid fri fra dagplejen, så for det meste har vi en stille og rolig dag sammen. I dag var dog en undtagelse, da jeg havde skoledag. Allerede i morges kunne jeg mærke, at fredagen havde noget godt i ærmet. Efter skole, mens jeg sad derhjemme og ventede på, at Valde skulle vågne henne i dagplejen, sneg den gode gamle fredags-feeling sig ind på mig. Og det kun ved hjælp af kaffe, forårssol og lidt seriekiggeri.

Som forælder kan man ikke bare smide sig på sofaen og gennemføre rødvinsritualet eller et netflix-marathon, lige når man vil. Det kan godt være lidt frustrerende, hvis man er meget fredagstræt. Men man kan stadig fyre ekstra op for hyggen med god mad, slik, stearinlys eller hvad man nu er til. Så det vil jeg gøre.

God weekend derude!

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