Da Valde fik 8-16 job

I sidste uge var Valdemar i dagpleje hver dag fra mandag-fredag. For første gang nogensinde! Vi har været så heldige at kunne give ham mindst 1 fridag om ugen indtil nu. Det er blandt andet det, der er så fedt ved at få børn mens man studerer, synes jeg. Og Lasse har været uden arbejde i en periode, hvor han også fik mulighed for at bruge en masse tid sammen med ham.

Men nu er det slut! Velkommen til virkeligheden. Altså kun én udgave af virkeligheden, men en, som mange børnefamilier forsøger at gebærde sig i: når ungerne får 8-16 jobs. Selvfølgelig er det ikke et arbejde som sådan, men det kræver altså noget af de små, at være væk hjemmefra og være social så mange timer om dagen. Eller endnu flere. Mange pasningsmuligheder har jo åbent 48 timer om ugen. For det flestes vedkommende er det sandsynligvis fordi forældrene har et job med ganske almindelige arbejdstider, som jo ofte ligger i det tidsrum. Sådan er vores samfund nu engang indrettet, og det kan der være meget kritik af, men det er ikke noget, jeg vil gå ind i her.

Jo, i min ideelle drømmeverden ville jeg ønske, at ingen børn, og især ikke mit eget skulle være væk fra mig så mange timer. Ikke at jeg ville blive hjemmegående, det er bare ikke mig, men jeg ville måske gerne udskyde min uddannelse et par år, hvis det var fuldstændigt ligegyldigt, hvor længe man holdt orlov. Men i min ideelle drømmeverden kører samfundet også i mit tempo, men sådan er det ikke. Der sker hele tiden nye ting på uddannelsesområdet, og hvis jeg skulle sætte det på standby nu, ville jeg komme tilbage til en totalt forandret studieordning, og måske ingen eller meget lidt SU. Ikke fordi man skal leve i frygt, absolut ikke. Men nu griber jeg chancen og får mig en uddannelse. For det vil jeg gerne. Men Tabi, vil du da ikke give dit barn det aller-aller-aller-bedste du kan? Jo, og indtil videre indebærer det for mig, at få en uddannelse. Måske vil det ikke direkte gavne ham, men jeg vil ikke kunne leve med mig selv, hvis jeg ikke gør det. Jeg vil gerne give mig selv de muligheder, der følger med.

Jeg føler mig meget privilegeret over, at jeg har mulighed for at tage en gratis uddannelse, og at jeg har fået Valde undervejs. Det giver virkelig bare den der ekstra tid i hverdagen sammenlignet med et fuldtidsjob. Men ikke lige for tiden, hvor der er eksamensperiode. Og sådan er det. Jeg synes det er hårdt at være væk fra ham så mange timer om ugen, men jeg ved, at det ikke skal vare for evigt. Lige om lidt har vi en megalang sommerferie på 6-7 uger, hvor vi bare skal hygge. Endnu en af glæderne ved at være studerende. Heldigvis er Valde blevet meget glad for sin dagplejemor, og når vi henter ham, vil han helst ikke med hjem igen.

Ammebillede fra vores ferie i Sverige sidste år
Ammebillede fra vores ferie i Sverige sidste år

388 thoughts on “Da Valde fik 8-16 job”

  1. Thank you for all of the hard work on this web page. My mum take interest in carrying out internet research and it is obvious why. A number of us know all about the compelling tactic you produce priceless secrets through the web site and therefore encourage contribution from other individuals about this idea while our child is in fact starting to learn so much. Take advantage of the rest of the year. You’re the one performing a brilliant job.

  2. Thanks a lot for providing individuals with an extremely wonderful chance to read articles and blog posts from this website. It is usually so pleasurable plus packed with fun for me and my office co-workers to search your web site no less than three times weekly to find out the latest issues you will have. And indeed, I’m also always pleased considering the splendid tactics you give. Selected 1 facts in this posting are particularly the very best we have had.

  3. I as well as my friends came reading through the good ideas from the website and so all of a sudden I got a horrible suspicion I never thanked the website owner for those techniques. The boys appeared to be consequently glad to learn all of them and now have in fact been making the most of them. Appreciate your being quite considerate as well as for deciding on this kind of outstanding ideas millions of individuals are really needing to discover. Our own honest regret for not expressing gratitude to earlier.

  4. wh0cd229148 [url=http://buycleocin.us.org/]cleocin[/url] [url=http://buyadvair.us.com/]advair[/url] [url=http://buyalli.us.org/]alli[/url] [url=http://cleocingel.us.com/]Cleocin For Sinus Infection[/url] [url=http://buycleocingel.us.org/]cleocin gel without prescription[/url] [url=http://buycleocingel.us.com/]cleocin gel[/url] [url=http://buyalli.us.com/]alli pills[/url] [url=http://buyclomid.us.com/]clomid[/url] [url=http://buymotrin.us.com/]motrin[/url]

  5. I must express some appreciation to you for bailing me out of this type of issue. After surfing around through the the web and obtaining proposals which are not powerful, I figured my entire life was done. Existing without the answers to the difficulties you’ve sorted out all through your good blog post is a crucial case, and ones that might have adversely damaged my career if I hadn’t noticed your site. Your know-how and kindness in controlling every part was crucial. I am not sure what I would have done if I had not encountered such a step like this. I’m able to at this point relish my future. Thanks a lot very much for your skilled and effective guide. I won’t be reluctant to propose your web page to any individual who should receive guidance on this issue.

  6. I’m writing to make you understand what a brilliant encounter my friend’s child obtained reading through your web site. She mastered too many things, most notably what it is like to have an awesome helping nature to make other individuals really easily have an understanding of certain extremely tough matters. You undoubtedly exceeded her expected results. Thank you for delivering those warm and friendly, healthy, informative and unique thoughts on your topic to Julie.

  7. Thanks for your entire effort on this site. Kim take interest in doing internet research and it’s really easy to see why. We notice all regarding the powerful form you give great guides through this web blog and as well invigorate response from visitors on that point then our favorite girl is truly studying a lot. Take advantage of the remaining portion of the new year. You are always performing a dazzling job.

  8. I simply wanted to make a note so as to express gratitude to you for all the remarkable tips and tricks you are giving out here. My considerable internet look up has at the end been rewarded with good quality know-how to talk about with my guests. I would suppose that we readers actually are definitely endowed to be in a perfect website with very many wonderful individuals with very beneficial points. I feel somewhat blessed to have come across your web pages and look forward to tons of more cool times reading here. Thanks a lot again for a lot of things.

  9. I’m just commenting to make you be aware of what a awesome discovery my daughter obtained reading your webblog. She learned several pieces, which included how it is like to have a great helping spirit to have others effortlessly understand chosen grueling things. You truly surpassed my expectations. Thank you for rendering those informative, safe, edifying and also fun tips about that topic to Lizeth.

  10. I truly wanted to write a note to appreciate you for those wonderful information you are giving here. My time consuming internet search has now been honored with brilliant know-how to exchange with my pals. I would believe that many of us readers are extremely lucky to be in a remarkable website with many perfect people with good pointers. I feel very grateful to have come across your website page and look forward to some more awesome moments reading here. Thanks a lot once more for all the details.

  11. wh0cd229148 [url=http://buysingulair.us.org/]singulair[/url] [url=http://buyserpina.us.com/]serpina[/url] [url=http://buystrattera.us.com/]atomoxetine strattera[/url] [url=http://singulairgeneric.us.org/]singulair[/url] [url=http://buytadalissx.us.org/]tadalis[/url] [url=http://buycelexa.us.com/]lexapro celexa[/url] [url=http://buyprednisolone.us.com/]PREDNISOLONE[/url] [url=http://buyvpxl.us.org/]buy vpxl[/url] [url=http://cleocingel.us.com/]cleocin hcl 150 mg[/url] [url=http://buyclomid.us.com/]clomid[/url] [url=http://buyadvair.us.com/]advair diskus[/url] [url=http://buytadalis.us.org/]Generic Tadalis Sx[/url]

  12. My husband and i were now thankful when Ervin managed to finish up his survey by way of the ideas he received in your site. It is now and again perplexing to simply continually be giving away strategies which often the others may have been selling. Therefore we remember we have got the writer to appreciate because of that. The specific explanations you have made, the straightforward website menu, the friendships your site help instill – it’s got many terrific, and it is assisting our son in addition to our family do think the theme is entertaining, which is truly important. Thanks for all!

  13. I as well as my buddies have been looking through the nice helpful hints from the blog and so all of the sudden came up with a horrible suspicion I had not expressed respect to the web blog owner for those tips. My men are already for this reason excited to learn them and have truly been making the most of these things. Many thanks for genuinely so thoughtful as well as for obtaining these kinds of amazing things millions of individuals are really wanting to discover. My very own honest regret for not expressing appreciation to you earlier.

  14. wh0cd229148 [url=http://buyzetia.us.com/]cost of zetia 10 mg[/url] [url=http://serpina.us.org/]buy serpina[/url] [url=http://buymotrin.us.org/]learn more[/url] [url=http://buytadalis.us.org/]Buy Tadalis Sx[/url] [url=http://buycelexa.us.com/]lexapro celexa[/url] [url=http://crestorgeneric.us.com/]crestor[/url] [url=http://singulairgeneric.us.org/]Singulair For Allergic Rhinitis[/url] [url=http://buycleocin.us.org/]cleocin for acne[/url] [url=http://tadalis.us.org/]tadalis[/url] [url=http://cleocingel.us.com/]cleocin 300 mg[/url] [url=http://buytadalissx.us.org/]tadalis[/url] [url=http://buytorsemide.us.org/]torsemide 5 mg[/url] [url=http://buytadalis.us.com/]Buy Tadalis[/url] [url=http://buybuspar.us.com/]buspirone 5 mg[/url] [url=http://buyprednisolone.us.com/]methyl prednisolone[/url]

  15. wh0cd229148 [url=http://buycelexa.us.com/]celexa price[/url] [url=http://buyadvair.us.com/]advair for asthma[/url] [url=http://buyclomid.us.com/]clomid clomiphene[/url] [url=http://buytorsemide.us.org/]torsemide 5 mg[/url] [url=http://buyalli.us.com/]learn more[/url] [url=http://tetracycline2017.us.org/]Tetracycline Cream[/url] [url=http://cleocingel.us.org/]Cleocin Hcl[/url] [url=http://buyserpina.us.com/]buy serpina[/url] [url=http://cleocingel.us.com/]cleocin[/url] [url=http://alli.us.org/]Alli[/url] [url=http://tetracycline365.us.com/]antibiotic tetracycline[/url] [url=http://buysildenafil.us.com/]sildenafil[/url] [url=http://buytorsemide.us.com/]torsemide[/url]

  16. wh0cd229148 [url=http://neurontin.fun/]neurontin price[/url] [url=http://levitra.fun/]levitra price per pill[/url] [url=http://methotrexatecost.store/]methotrexate cost[/url]

  17. Hi there, just became alert to your blog through Google, and found that it is really informative.

    I’m gonna watch out for brussels. I will appreciate if you continue this in future.
    A lot of people will be benefited from your writing. Cheers!

Skriv et svar

Din e-mailadresse vil ikke blive publiceret. Krævede felter er markeret med *