Offline er det nye sort?

Jeg havde en idé. Dem har jeg så mange af. En idé om, at jeg skulle være offline den første uge efter fødslen. Modsat sidste gang hvor jeg sad med den forbandede smartphone i hånden fra første øjeblik. Hvilket nok er noget af det eneste jeg fortryder i mit forældreskab. Men da jeg nu ikke længere har en smartphone regulerer mit for(mis)brug af internettet sig selv. På den ene side ville jeg gerne være hende der kunne sige: “jeg var 100% offline den første uge, og sad bare og stirrede på min baby 24/7 mens jeg mediterede og kom nærmere zen”, men det er bare urealistisk i denne moderne verden. For ligeså meget som jeg gerne vil gå i babyboble, ligeså ivrig er jeg da efter at dele nyheden med familie, venner og bekendte. Og når først det er gjort, er det ikke så spændende mere.

En anden ting er, at den her sort-hvid-tænkning med “det store onde internet” ikke er særlig brugbar, for idet de sociale medier bliver fjenden, bliver det for min hjerne kun mere spændende. Jeg ved ikke hvorfor jeg har det her behov for at skabe en fjende, jeg kan afholde mig fra, for derefter at rose mig selv for min egen afholdenhed og føle mig som et bedre menneske. Allerhelst vil jeg finde en form for balance, og det er heldigvis ved at ske helt naturligt. Selvfølgelig er det godt at tage sig en offline uge (eller en halv) en gang imellem, men samtidigt skal man også forberede sig selv på at blive lettere sindssyg af det – og det er ikke det jeg har brug for lige nu, jeg er skør nok af hormon-trip i forvejen.

MEN – smartphonen er faktisk vores fjende, fordi den gør at vi fravælger tilvalget (uuh, hvor eksistentialistisk) – fordi den altid er lige ved hånden, og en-hånds-betjent, kan man nemt logge på uden at hjernen overhovedet registrerer det. En computer eller en (kæmpe)iPad derimod, tager man ikke bare lige frem på toilettet eller i en ammestund eller i toget eller på gaden. Og dermed er jeg virkelig glad for, at jeg skrottede min smartphone for længe siden!

Desuden er det ret umuligt at gå i babyboble når man har en 2,5-årig med ild i nummi. Men vi nyder det så godt vi kan.

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